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Here at Brides Up North HQ, we’re huge advocates of choosing a wedding photographer that’s right for you and your big day. But in order to get perfect results, it’s not just about picking your favourite style of photography, but also someone who has the professional experience, skills and equipment to capture your day without fault. After all, you only get one shot.
As the cost of a wedding can easily stack up, we appreciate the temptation to take up a ‘mates rate’ offer from your relative or friend that has a flashy camera, but an ‘all the gear and no idea’ approach is a sure recipe for disappointment.
In a bid to demonstrate the difference between images taken by a professional versus a have-a-go snapper with a DSLR camera, our Sponsor and award-winning photographer Jonny Draper, teamed up with some of the team at Lancashire wedding venue Ashfield House, and a number of other North West suppliers, to showcase how the results of each vary.
Lighting, focus and composition are just a few of the issues to look out for, but it’s certainly easy to spot the difference between the pro and amateur pics.
Here to explain more about the concept and results of the comparison shoot is Ashfield House co-owner and wedding coordinator, Katie Street.

katie says: With the average UK wedding costing £26,989* it’s no surprise that couples are faced with tough cost-saving decisions when their budgets creep up and up. It’s heartbreaking however, to hear from couples who are disappointed with their photographs after the wedding because they chose the slash their photography budget. That friend with a decent DSLR camera may have the best of intentions but will the results be good enough?
With the help of our friend and award-winning wedding photographer Jonny Draper, we decided to conduct our own side-by-side, like-for-like wedding photography experiment.
Jonny, armed with his high-end equipment and years of experience was pitched against Karen, our assistant general manager, complete with her ‘decent’ DSLR camera, and our makeup artist Kerry Baker was on hand to snap away with her camera phone too.

Your friends and family, or the hobbyist, will have incredible intentions yet, if they haven’t got the equipment or the technical expertise and continued learning, then there really is no comparison. Most of the work in photographing a wedding is before and after, hours of painstaking editing, which our average enthusiast doesn’t have the ability to get right.
Years ago, taking the actual photographs was the easy part. The processing in the dark room and time spent with chemicals could go on for days. Photography was reserved for those elite professionals who had invested in their cameras, lenses, lights and film, plus the need for a dedicated dark room. It was big business! Every high street had a celebrated photography studio and you needed to book weeks in advance to arrange your sitting for family portraits, and months in advance to secure your wedding day photography.

This day and age, you can teach yourself the necessary skills from the comfort of your own laptop, and, if you have the money, invest in the world’s best kit. But – as these images show – that doesn’t replace the skill, expertise and experience of a dedicated wedding photographer.

In this modern-day age, we have a camera at our fingertips every single moment of every single day. We capture everything we see – including our breakfast, lunch and dinner! Cast your mind back not so long ago – could you imagine walking into Max Spielman with your 35mm film, and waiting a week to receive 27 printed images of your tea?
The digital age has ingrained photography into the very fiber of our being. It forms friendships across continents on social media platforms, gives children a digital footprint from birth and has even shaped how we find our life partner, coining the term “swipe left”. With all this in mind though, your wedding photographs need to stand out as incredible in a sea of everyday photos and so should be placed in the hands of someone capable of doing so.

A wedding day is possibly one of the biggest investments you will make in life – in finances, stress and the life changing decision to form a lasting bond with that person you love. It goes by in a blur, and is such a special day that it deserves to be captured, to be treasured and remembered forever.

With thanks to those who contributed to the shoot
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We’re easing you back into the four day week by featuring the beautiful big day of Danni and Rich, who tied the knot last November after more than six years together.
They exchanged vows in their parish church in Melbourne, Derbyshire, and then celebrated at one of their favourite local venues, Amalfi White – a stunning restaurant and cocktail bar complete with a contemporary ballroom.
We just love the couple’s special touches throughout the day, which included a nod to their love of books, and also lots of glorious sweet treats in the form of a dessert table.
Wih images from Ragdoll Photography
danni says: Rich had a ring, ready to propose for a while, so when we booked a last-minute trip to Rome in June 2015, he decided to pop the question, which was incredible! We’ve been together for over six years (four-and-a-half when he proposed) so we’ve always talked about it, but it still took me by complete surprise. I’d always said please, please do not propose in front of anyone, so he tried a few times in various super romantic locations but every time he was about to get down on one knee (unbeknown to me) a crowd of people would come along. In the end, he proposed in our hotel room at the end of a perfect evening. I was in my pyjamas but immediately after saying yes got dressed and we went out for champagne.

We got married on 25th November 2016, which has always been a special time of the year for us. Our first date was on 22nd November 2010 and Rich’s mum’s birthday, who sadly passed away ten years ago, would have been on 27th November. So, this date was a way to honour Rich’s ,um.
We tied the knot in Melbourne, Derbyshire, which is the village we live in. We got married at Melbourne Parish Church. Angela, the vicar, is amazing (she was extremely patient with me when I sobbed my way through our vows) and we were so glad that it was her who married us.
Our reception was at The Ballroom at Amalfi White. It’s where we celebrated buying our first home and is literally our local as it’s along the road. We wanted a very relaxed day full of lovely food and drinks and our favourite people so it felt perfect to be somewhere we loved and where we would feel comfortable.
We didn’t have a particular theme. Overall, we just wanted it to be relaxed with great lighting so that it felt atmospheric and romantic. The combination of chandeliers on dimmers, light-up ‘love’ letters and candles as table centre pieces looked beautiful together.
We knew we wanted to entwine our love of books into the day and do this in a subtle way. Our table names were Minas Tirith, Hogwarts and The Shire (Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter references) and we had quotes from F Scott Fitzgerald (our new surname is Fitzgerald) dotted around.
We’re also Christmas fanatics, so Amalfi White put the Christmas decorations up and we had some of our favourite Christmas songs on our playlist in the evening.
There was no particular colour scheme. I don’t like anything to be ‘matchy matchy’ so all of the bridesmaids wore different dresses in complementing shades and we kept decorations soft and neutral. We used burgundy ribbons in the flowers and burgundy ties and pocket squares to give a bit of depth and winter warmth to the neutral colour palette.
I visited so many shops trying to find a long sleeved, low back dress but couldn’t find anything quite right. In the end, I bought my strapless Maggie Sottero gown from Brides & Gowns in Derby. Fiona, the seamstress there, created the sleeves, top and back of the dress. She was amazing – her attention to detail was incredible.
Rich wore a grey wool blend three-piece suit from Next and the ushers wore charcoal grey suits from M&S.
The bridesmaids each had different dresses in complementing tones. The wedding day was the first time all the girls tried their dresses on together as they live across the country (with one bridesmaid flying in from Australia!) so we weren’t exactly sure how it would look but they looked stunning. Finding one dress to suit eight women with very different body shapes and personal styles would have been impossible so this way everyone got a dress to suit them. Most of the dresses were from Asos. And the flower girls’ dresses were from Monsoon.
On the day of the wedding, we used my hairdresser Millie to do mine and all the bridesmaids’ hair as well as my mum’s. Emma, who works at Mac in Derby, did all of our make-up.
Rosie from Ragdoll Photography was our photographer. As soon as we spoke to Rosie we knew she was the right photographer for us. She was absolutely amazing and a pleasure to have with us on our wedding day. She made everybody feel completely at ease and captured some really beautiful, natural moments. We didn’t want to lose any of our day to staged photos so nearly all of the photos are completely natural (the exception being the group photo in front of the church).
Our flowers were supplied by The Flower Mill and were gorgeous. My bouquet was made up of lots of greenery (including Eucalyptus) as well as White O’Hara Roses, Gypsophila, Astilbe and Spray Roses.
Our bridesmaids’ bouquets doubled up as flowers on the tables during our wedding breakfast. We used French Ruscus down the lengths of the table along with white pillar candles of varying heights which looked really simple and beautiful without cluttering up the table. The two flower girls had fairy wands made of gypsophila.
My friend Helen started her own Etsy shop last year and created our personalised order of service. It was simple and beautiful and we stuck little envelopes in the back that said ‘For Happy Tears’ and put handkerchiefs in. There were lots of tears – especially in the speeches so we were very glad we did this! Helen also handwrote our thank you/welcome poem which is now in our dining room.
I took a calligraphy class with Polly & Me, who I found on Instagram. It was great fun and meant I could do the place names myself.
My sister made homemade fudge as our wedding favours consisting of chocolate, all butter fudge and Baileys fudge.
Neither of us are big wedding cake fans so we opted for a dessert table made up of Krispy Kremes, cookies, macarons, sweets, chocolate cake, red velvet cake and some treats made by our lovely friends and family (brownies, Victoria sponge, lemon drizzle and cupcakes). It worked really well and it nearly all went!
Our welcome drinks included Prosecco (we did a ‘pimp your Prosecco’ table inspired by Pinterest) and the Tom Collins, which is our usual drink of choice at Amalfi’s.
For our food, the starter was ham hock terrine with fresh bread and piccalilli. We then had chicken, sage potato cake and winter vegetables with red wine gravy for our main. We used our dessert table as pudding and gave everyone an extra drink of their choice. We served red and white wine or Prosecco with the meal.
In the evening, we had pizza and antipasti boards which went down a storm! When we first got engaged and started talking about our wedding day we both said we want to eat pizza and doughnuts – and that’s exactly what we did!
For our entertainment, we had a DJ and a photo booth. The photo booth was such a great investment – it was busy all night and it means we now have hundreds of extra (hilarious) photos of all of our guests.
Jackstar Productions provided our love letters and photo booth and were great to work with.
After our wedding, we can’t recommend Amalfi White’s enough. Kat, the event manager, (who is absolutely incredible!) and all the staff made the day run perfectly. They were so helpful and flexible and really made sure they accommodated everything we wanted to make the day perfect for us.
The ceremony was definitely the highlight of the day. Going for a walk – just the two of us – whilst our guests walked from the church to Amalfi White’s was great advice that we took from my sister; it gave us a few minutes alone to let it sink in that we’d actually just got married. The whole day was incredible, we wish we could do it all again.
For our honeymoon, we went to New York and Mexico.
My top tips for other Brides Up North would be: enjoy every minute of it and take a few moments throughout the day for just the two of you, to step back and take it all in. Don’t get hung up on the tiny details; yes they are beautiful and lovely to have but you probably won’t even notice them on the day – as long as you have the people you want there, you’ll have the best day and as long as you’re happy – your guests will be too.
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At Brides, when it comes to doing your own fake tan for your wedding, we're all about the 'fake don't bake' approach. Gone are the days of tangerine-orange fake tan leaving you looking like an Oompa Loompa from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory: fake tan formulas have improved and application is now easier than ever. Whether you choose to apply fake tan at home or visit a tanning expert for a spray tan (the menu from Tom Harknett at the W Hotel in Leicester Square, London is a great choice for first-time tanners) there are a few key rules to making your tan streak free and as natural looking as possible.


What day before the wedding should you apply fake tan?

Emma Kotch, St. Tropez Tanning and Skin Finishing Expert says, 'for bridal tans, I always recommend having your tan at least two days before the wedding - that way you are absolutely guaranteed that there will be no transfer onto your dress.' Carly Hobbs from Sienna X also recommends a tanning trial. 'Just like with make-up trials, I always suggest a tan trial - ideal pre-hen party and one to get all the girls involved with.' So, if you're marrying on a Saturday, think of Thursday as 'tan day', so that the colour has time to develop and calm to a natural, sunkissed tone.
'If you only have time to have one done the morning before your wedding, make sure you shower that evening and then again in the morning to ensure no traces of tan are left on the skin,' suggests Carly. 

Ready to tan? Follow our step-by-step guide

Step 1: PREP, PREP, PREP
The secret to an all over glowing tan is the prep work. Carly suggests: 'brides should exfoliate every day for a full week before tanning.'  This is to remove all the dead skin cells and create a smooth surface on the skin for the tan to be applied on. For maximum results, use exfoliating gloves with a scrub and work in a circular motion. It's also important to plan your hair removal around tanning. You should leave at least 24 hours between hair removal and applying fake tan, otherwise the tan can collect in the pores and leave the skin looking 'dotty'.
Step 2: Be moisture savvy
It's all about striking the perfect balance: dry skin is a big no-no when it comes to achieving the perfect tan and finish. The tan can cling to dehydrated patches making it look uneven. However over-moisturising (particularly with a formula containing oil) can cause the tan to slip off the skin, again appearing patchy.
Healthy and hydrated skin will hold a tan longer and much better. For best results, religiously moisturise every day leading up to 'tan day', but on the day of your spray tan avoid applying any moisturiser or lotion. St. Tropez's oil-free Tan Enhancing Body Moisturiser is a great choice for hydrating skin. 
Step 3: Choose the best formula 
This is up to you and your choice should be based on overall effect and the techniques you prefer to use.
Naturally, the most hassle and stress free option is to book a spray tan. Our favourites include St Tropez, James Read and Vita Liberata, which are all available nationwide.
If you're going for a DIYT (do it yourself tan) on the week of the wedding then a lotion or mousse is the best option. Both formulas are the most hydrating for the skin, quick drying, easy to apply (always use a mit for a streak-free finish) and arguably the closest result to a spray tan.
Alternatively, if you feel more comfortable building up the colour to your desired shade then gradual tans are perfect. They take 8-12 hours to develop, so don't expect to finish application with a glow. 
Instant tans are not the best choice for your wedding: although they are a great quick-fix, they wash away with warm soap and water and are more likely to run all over your white frock if it were to rain on your wedding day. What they are great for is a trial tans if you are trying to work out what shade you should go for before you commit to a gradual tan. But for the event itself, they're better left to the hen party!
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While many disastrous scenarios inevitably run through your mind before the big day arrives, one of these is probably not someone objecting to you and your fiancé's union. But thanks to a recent thread on Reddit, it seems that what we long thought of as a rhetorical question isn't so rhetorical after all. At least, not according to these people.
On the Ask Reddit page, OneInAZillion asked the community this question: "Redditors who have objected at weddings or seen someone object, what happened in the next 5 minutes?" Surprisingly, a good number of people had a harrowing story to tell. But before you read on and get worked up by the (slim) possibility that this may happen on your own wedding day, keep this professional's comment in mind. "As a measurement as to how often this happens: I work weddings and have attending somewhere north of 300 weddings," Star_Tropic wrote on the thread. "I have never seen nor heard of this happening at any event I have worked. Nor have I heard of other industry professionals that I'm in contact with experience it."
Now that you're feeling calmer, here are a few of the most cringeworthy stories we found.

"When the pastor got to the part 'or forever hold your peace,' the bride said, 'Yes, I'd like to say something.' Then she turned around to her guests and said, 'I'd like to thank my maid of honor for sleeping with my fiancé last night.' With that, she threw her bouquet and stormed off. The story even made it on the radio at the time."

"I was a waiter for a venue that had a lot of weddings. We typically watched the wedding ourselves from the second floor and waited for everyone to come up for the reception. A guest for the wedding arrived a few hours early, so he sat in the restaurant and had a few too many drinks. He yelled, 'DON'T F*CKING DO IT (bride's name here). HE'S AN A**HOLE.' There was the typical gasp by the crowd, then it was just silence as people from the bar escorted him out."


"I was at a college buddy's wedding when a drunken childhood friend of the bride tried to stand up and profess his love for her. The bride's father immediately stood up and tried to haul off said drunken guy by the ear, except he was so pissed he pulled too hard and partially severed the guy's ear... The dude screamed like a small girl [and] a few people even applauded."

"My friend's older brother is a lawyer. He was marrying a lawyer. Most of their friends are lawyers. The officiant was a judge who was a friend of theirs. He and his fiancé thought it would be funny to plant someone in the audience. They got a friend to yell "I Object!" to which the judge yelled "Overruled!" It seemed to have gone over well for most but I don't think some of their family members got it."

"My dad marrying his third wife. My step brother and I were in the wedding party. He was about 6, I was 10. The preacher asks if anyone objects and my brother raises his hand so very politely. My dad asks why, and my step brother replies, 'because I want you to promise to take me fishing whenever I want, first.' "


"This happened at one of my friend's sibling's weddings. Her parents are super conservative and hadn't gotten the chance to know the daughter's fiancé very well before they got married. In their minds all that was relevant about him was that he was 10 years older than her and had previously divorced. They had made subtle comments here and there before the wedding that they weren't happy about it. It should have been a forewarning of what was to come. The day of the wedding, everything was beautiful. Friend's sister and her fiancé were ecstatic to be getting married and invited friends and family from both sides to their outdoor wedding. All was going well, until the preacher asks the audience if anyone has objections to why they should get married. And as serious as can be, dad of the bride stands up and says 'Her mother and I object,' and then after a long hesitation sits back down. Silence. No one can believe that that just happened. Not knowing exactly how to handle it, the preacher just says 'Ok' and finishes the ceremony as planned."
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Owen Wilson and Vince Vaughn star as rogue marriage disrupters in this rom-com about picking up women at weddings. But the joke's on them, because they both end up desperately in love. In the meantime, the audience is gifted with several elaborate wedding scenes. The montage at the beginning takes the cake as the leading men go through all the wedding traditions at lavish affairs where they toast, take to the dance floors, and flirt with bridesmaids. The film ends with another epic wedding crash. The drama is high and the décor is gorgeous! Here are more great movies about friendships.



Apparently, a godfather can't refuse any request on his daughter's wedding day, so the guests line up to talk to Vito Corleone, famously played by Marlon Brando. But there's more drama going on at the lavish Italian wedding on the family's sprawling estate. The film opens with Connie and Carlo's nuptials and we meet all the players in this iconic family drama. Talia Shire marries the soon-to-be abusive guy who'll betray the family. The youngest son, played by Al Pacino, shows up with his outsider girlfriend Kay (Diane Keaton.) And we meet the hothead Sonny (James Caan) and consigliere, Robert Duvall. The wedding is rich and extravagant with tension boiling just under the surface.



This women's weepy is your throwback 80s favorite starring powerhouse actresses Sally Field, Dolly Parton, Daryl Hannah, Olympia Dukakis and Shirley MacLaine who play a group of Southern matriarchs who love gossip and drama. The film's highlight is Julia Robert's spectacular pink wedding to hunky Dylan McDermott. Puffy sleeves on bridesmaids, everything draped in yards of blush fabric and big hair galore. It's a feast of overdone pink perfection and late eighties fashion. And there's a great armadillo groom's cake at the raucous reception! Here's some more movies that are probably going to make you cry.




This beloved rom-com features an iconic wedding scene between Keira Knightley and Chiwetel Ejiofor. The couple's BFF, Andrew Lincoln, who's crushing on Knightley, arranges for a brass band to hide in the pews during their wedding ceremony. When the musicians burst forth with a rousing rendition of "All You Need is Love," you'll truly believe that romance is real and so is love, actually, because you'll gush and swoon just like the bride! These romantic movies hit you right in the heart.


This is the perfect movie to watch when you're searching for your wedding theme because it features marriages galore. There's the Scottish-themed wedding when leading lady Andie MacDowell mistakenly marries a man in a kilt who is way too old for her. There are elaborate weddings on huge English estates, glimpses of a Lil' Bo Peep Wedding and a Texan wedding, and lots of hijinks at the various altars. The sheepishly adorbs Hugh Grant even gets attacked near one of them. Lavish weddings and sweet romance await you in this classic rom-com.


Paul Rudd gets engaged to Rashida Jones early on so the rest of the movie concerns all the plans for the big day. And whoops—the groom doesn't have enough friends to even out with all the bridesmaids. Time to for Rudd to find some guy friends, but that's not as easy as it sounds. The finale is a gorgeous, make-you-tear-up-at-the-view beach wedding. And it's going to have one of those dramatic interruptions. The vows get a bromance redo as well, but in the end everything's balanced out perfection! These may just be the funniest movies of all time.


The wedding scene at the end of this iconic 1960s classic is an ode to that most famous of all marriage pronouncements: "Speak now or forever hold your piece!" We don't want to give anything away, but the congregation ends up getting locked in the church while the bride flees their oppressive shouts. Katherine Ross is a vision in her mod bridal fashion. Young Dustin Hoffman plays the iconic counterculture hero in this acclaimed film about the cynicism that's sometimes at the heart of love.


Adam Sandler is at his charming best in this set-in-the-eighties throwback with wedding scenes galore. Drew Barrymore is a dream as a wedding reception server while broken-hearted Sandler is the wedding singer with rock star dreams. The violins are rocking out with "Don't Stop Believing" in the sad, but funny scene when Sandler gets left at the altar. Get ready for mullets, tuxedos and classic 80s rock in this romantic ode to weddings. Here are the best '80s movies to blast you back to your favorite decade.


The stunning wedding in Bridesmaids features laser lights, colored fountains and Vegas-style staging. The bride and groom appear to be floating on water. But things get even better when the real Wilson Philips show up to croon your favorite ever ballad, so just "Hold On" for one more day and things will go your way! Kristen Wiig and Maya Rudolph shine as the BFFs—and don't forget Melissa McCarthy stealing the show in a bridal gown fitting gone totally awry!


The epic backyard wedding is gorgeous in this lovely and funny remake staring Steve Martin as a dad who does not want to let his baby girl go. Martin Short is a blast as the wedding planner of the increasingly lavish affair. Diane Keaton plays the mother-of-the-bride who stays cool while things get chaotic. By the time the bride is flashing her sparkly tennies as she walks down the aisle, you'll need a hankie of your own. Because this wedding drips in flowers and everything turns out beautiful.

Everyone loves watching the whole cast do the Electric Slide at the end The Best Man, the wedding love story all about old friendships and staying loyal. This audience favorite takes place over a wedding weekend. Morris Chestnut's the groom and Taye Diggs plays his best man—who had a secret tryst with the bride a ways back. All this makes for a super tense scene at the altar after the groom makes the discovery. But with all the friends gathered, and most of them shedding emotional tears, it's a wedding vow scene that shows what love and commitment is all about.



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I recently stumbled upon an article called How to Eat like a Ballerina – the advice was what I could have predicted, and didn’t recommend nearly as much pastry intake as I consider essential to my personal happiness. So the ballerina diet – not for me. But dressing like a ballerina is another matter entirely. There’s something so effortlessly elegant about the mix of comfort and tailoring in the ballerina uniform. I’m a huge fan of the brand Needle & Thread and their dreamy dresses, but this Giselle dress – named after one of my favourite ballets, incidentally – is without a doubt my favourite from their collections, and certainly a new favourite piece in my wardrobe. It really does remind me of many of the dance recital costumes I wore in my dancer days – but much more grown-up and modern (and let’s be fair, a lot less fuchsia, too – people do love to dress little dancers in bright colours for some reason.)
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